In one of her comments, Average Girl challenged me to think about dating guys that aren't my "type." As I pondered her suggestion, I couldn't quite figure out what my type is. I don't have many deal breakers in dating, I'm pretty open to dating just about anyone. I don't want to waste time with men who are only separated or who don't ever want to have kids. I also don't date smokers or self professed animal haters. But other than that, I'm fairly open minded.
However, I do have preferences that are based on past experience. I prefer men who are within 10 years of my age and who are my age or a bit older. Past dates have taught me I don't have a ton in common with younger men or men that are way older than me. I also prefer to date men 5'10" and under. I won't turn a date down with a tall guy, but shorter is a preference.
So, to broaden my horizons, I'm starting my own Date Out of the Box Dating Challenge. I've put my online profile back up and I'm getting rid of my preferences. I'm going to date men that I normally would turn down. I'm going to ignore my preferences and see what happens.
I started this past weekend. I went out with a guy that I fell out of touch with last year. Normally, I have a "no be backs" rule. If something didn't work out the first time, I usually don't go back for seconds. I broke my rule on Saturday and I had a pretty nice time. Not sure where it will go, but I'll keep you posted. ;)
If anyone out there wants to join in on the dating challenge feel free to comment and tell us about your experiences!
Monday, June 16, 2008
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Nice! I hope it develops positively!
As a tall who gets so tired of hearing other girls say 'I don't date anyone under 5'10", it's a nice change to hear someone say they have the opposite preference! Don't change that one :)
Well, I hope this works out for you. We are rooting for you!!!
I think sometimes the "no be backs" rule...which I also have as well, can be forgone....
Well....as you know, same thing going on here....
good for you, diva! I'm not sure if i'm dating in the box or out...just happy i'm dating at all. ha ha!
That's a cool idea. Steve is five years younger than me, which I NEVER would have thought would be a good idea (based on past dating experiences, where it really wasn't). But it's never been an issue.
Here's to you finding the perfect guy for you, whether it's outside or inside the box!
When I was in the dating scene, I tried to be more open minded. And let go of rigid requirements. In the end, I went on lots of dates with nice guys. No sparks. No interest. I turned down a lot of second dates. Hopefully, you'll have more luck with it - if you haven't already!
I'm ready to join the dating scene. so...I'm with ya!
Yep...as soon as I released my expectations about my "type" I met my husband. As in...within six weeks. Now, I don't know if you are in the market for a husband but its nice to have one you can perch up on your mantle and bring out when company comes over. I think everyone should have one.
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