Have you ever wondered what kinds of questions you should ask to see if someone is your soul mate? People always say they just knew when they'd met the right person. I've always wondered how they "just knew." Was it the answers to a set of questions or was it just a feeling?
This article gave a few great ideas about questions to ask someone to determine if they are your soul mate. I thought these were pretty good. I've even asked a couple of them myself.
What are some of the questions that worked for you to find that one special person? Or did you just know? How did you know?
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It wasn't anything like "love at first sight" for me, but I remember seeing Sean for the first time and thinking, "Yes. That is someone I need to know."
I like those questions! They're not ridiculous, but they're things you'd like to know.
Interesting questions. I think with most people I've known for a while, I get to these things without asking them directly.
Although, my ex husband and I had similar answers when we were young and then changed. So....soul mate? I'm not someone who is a big believer in a soul mate as a spouse. I think mine is my best friend. :)
Shawn & I connected immediately. Yesterday we celebrated our 6 wedding anniversary.
We just kinda knew.
I would say i would have to go on feeling. I think questions might lead up to the feeling, but there are no specific ones that would determine that.
I don't think it was any particular question that drove Sweets and I closer together. It was a similar lifestyle. A similar outlook on pets (everything from wanting them to how to train them). A similar upbringing from families with similar values. All those things allowed for a comfort level that I hadn't experienced with others.
Adriana- I thought they were pretty good questions too.
Princess B- I'm kinda with you on the best friend thing. Not sure how I feel about soulmates. I'm on the fence.
AGAW- Congrats on your anniversary!
Surfergrrl-I'm a big go with my gut and go on feelings type of girl too. I'm still learning to trust those feelings though.
Nilsa- I like the silmilar lifestyles idea. Most of the guys that I have dated for any length of time have had similar lifestyles and values to me.
I always thought I "just knew," but 99% of the time I was wrong. So much for that :)
For me, it wasn't specific questions of the guys, but an issue of whether or not I was being honest about who I was, rather than putting on a facade of who I thought he might be attracted to. That tripped me up for quite awhile.
Loves it! Some are just questions I need to ask myself!
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