Friday, October 10, 2008

Do Nothing.....

...and everything gets done. At least that's what the Tao Te Ching tells us. I try to practice this seemingly easy mantra in my everyday life, but let me be the first to tell you, it is a lot harder than it sounds.

My understanding of this verse is that we should strive to let go of trying to control everything and let things happen naturally. Okay, very valid point. I get it. Stop controlling. Don't have to tell me twice. Or maybe you do.....

What I find difficult is determining which situations really do need my action and which situations would be best served if I stayed out of them. This is the hard part. For example, if you aren't happy in your job, do you frantically send out resumes for every job that seems to fit your criteria? Or do you wait patiently keeping your eyes open for something to come along without really putting out a ton of effort? Do you date every available man, using every available online dating service or do you just keep your eyes peeled for a nice guy in your every day life?

I struggle between doing nothing and taking action. At what point do you stop wishing for something and start doing something to get it? Karen Luniw of the Law of Attraction Center says that we shouldn't just take any action, she would say take "inspired action." Karen advises listening to those nagging little voices (I've definitely got one of those) and those little inspirations that you get during the day. She believes those are the actions we should be focusing on in order to get us where we are going or to get us what we are asking for. I don't know about you, but this is a lot easier said than done for me because, I have a lot of noise in my head!

So, the struggle continues or maybe the fact that something is a struggle is the problem in the first place. Maybe just doing nothing really is the way to go.

6 comments:

PrincessB said...

There might be something to that. I think sometimes the harder we try to make things happen, the less likely they will. Too much pressure or something. I should try this as well. more go with the flow.

Average Girl In Average World said...

I am of no help here. Wish I had some advice for you. Boo :(

Good Post!

Two Date Diva said...

Princess B-yep that's my new philosophy-go with the flow!

AGAW- aww you help even when you don't know it!

Nicole said...

I think the point that you're still struggling with it means you're not technically doing nothing. By doing nothing, you're forced to pay better attention for those a-ha moments that push you in the right direction. Yes, feel free to read job postings and feel free to shop for men online, but unless something about the job or guy resonates with you, you don't need to take action.

I struggle with this too though...and I think it still is a form of control. The control is in the wanting to know what's going to work or what you should be doing. The goal is to be at peace with not knowing and to take action when it feels right.

Much easier said than done!!! :-)

Two Date Diva said...

Nicole-I agree, when you struggle and refuse to let it be, you really are NOT doing nothing, what you are doing is stressing. I'm going to have to get better at letting go!

Surfergrrl said...

I'm very familiar with this struggle. Very familiar.