Insecurity is Unattractive

I don't care who displays it! It can turn the hottest guy into the most unattractive prospect ever. It can turn the world's most beautiful woman into someone you wouldn't go out with if you were paid.

Not returning a phone call right away does not mean someone doesn't want to talk to you. It means that he/she has a life outside of you! I know that in the past I have jumped to this conclusion when a guy that I really liked didn't call when *I* thought he should. I also realized that *my* expectations were just that-mine. I had no right to hold anyone else to those expectations, especially when I never informed the boy of what those were! I learned the lesson by being called on my crazy behavior and unspoken expectations.

The first time I had this behavior reflected back to me in someone elses behavior, it REALLY clicked. I'm beginning to believe the quickest cure for this behavior is to have someone pull it on you. That's when it finally clicks that maybe, just maybe, the world does NOT revolve around you.

Okay, rant is over. I will now return to my regularly scheduled Pollyanna attitude.